Why Men Love Bitches is an awesome book!

by Andrea
(Scottsdale, AZ)

My all-time favorite book about dating and relationships is really a book about life! It's called Why Men Love Bitches and though I am not fond of the title, I do LOVE the message it gives about how important self-confidence is!!! I think that EVERY woman should read this book, whether you want to be dating, are married, or are still in junior high - this book is about coming into your OWN full, rich, beautiful powerful, gifted SELF, and letting yourself shine!

The way the author uses the word "bitch" is not to convey a meaning of bitchy, as in being sour, nasty, or diva-esque, but rather as a code word for being confident, satisfied, fulfilled, and in control of her own rich, full life. Just because you'd like to be in a relationship doesn't mean you have to drop everything to wait for it! And, once you read this gem, you'll know that having an empty life, devoid of interests and hobbies, is the WORST thing that you can possibly do to attract a man (except for a 'playah' who is only interested in bootie-calls that is!)

The main premise (and the tag line I think??) is how to go from being a "doormat to a dreamgirl", and it's SO cool, because it is all super practical advice about why 'having a LIFE' is SO SO SO attractive to men, and then how to go about doing that.

I used to be the doormat type in my life - not just with men, but in most areas of my life - people-pleasing, changing my plans to suit others, bending over backwards, not having (or expressing) my own opinion, too much time on my hands and always available because of it! After reading this book, I had a much greater understanding of why I really needed a full and interesting life of my own - not just to be attractive to men, but to have fun while living A LIFE OF MY OWN! ...I haven't looked back since!

This is definitely a MUST-read for every girl out there - to improve your LIFE (finding love is just a fringe benefit, but it works for that too!!!)